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Topic: Problem about things that happened while GM was away
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Randy Stankey
Film God
Posts: 6539
From: Erie, Pennsylvania
Registered: Jun 99
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posted 06-12-2004 09:59 AM
It's easy to get caught up in the moment when something happens like that. I'm not saying that it's right to stand around and laugh when somebody commits a gross-out act but the "shock" of the situation can make us react that way sometimes. It's called a "Reaction Formation" in psychological circles. It's similar to the way we make jokes about nuclear war when we know the reality of nuclear bombs is anything but funny.
I say that the best thing to do is to forget about it and move on. If there is fallout from the incident; punitive, political or otherwise; just take it like a man and do your best to get over it and get on with your life. There's no reason to dwell on it. (If you live your life with one foot in the past and one foot in the future, the only thing you'll ever accomplish is to piss all over the present!)
Furthermore, I agree with the others. It's high time to get out of Dodge. Judging from your past posts about kids climbing up the walls to the balcony and about the abuse/neglect you have seen in the projection booth, this is not a "healthy" business. I'm sure that if this theater isn't well on its way "down the tube" it will be soon. It's a sinking ship. The best thing to do is to head for the lifeboats while you still have a chance.
Movie theaters are frequently staffed by "wanna-bes" and "posers". These are people who have few good job skills (either because this is their first job or because they have flunked out of other jobs) and they gravitate to theaters because expectations are (generally) low. On top of that, they tend to think that, because they work in a theater, they are "in the business". Nothing could be farther from the truth. They are not in the "Movie Business"! They are in the "Movie THEATER Business"! There is a big difference! The upshot of all this is that movie theaters can develop a truly Faustian atmosphere!
Even if you have to (temporarily) take a job outside the movie business! Get out now!
If you can get an interview at another (good) theater, don't be afraid to tell your new (prospective) employer the reason you want to leave your old job. Don't go into details. Just simply say that you take your work seriously but the people you work for do not. Most movie theater managers have a good idea what the other theaters in their area are like. Many times, all you have to say is, "I worked for [Company X].", and they will know exactly what you are talking about.
When I worked for Cinemark, there were a couple of Carmike theaters in my town. Everybody knew which company owned the good theaters and which company owned the dumpy ones. If you applied for a job at Cinemark and you put down "Carmike" on your application, it would be instantly noticed. All the applicant had to say was, "I want to work in a better theater." It was implicity understood. If that applicant's reference checks came up clean and they passed the interview they USUALLY made a good employee at Cinemark.
If your work record at your present theater is "clean", now is the time to cut your losses and get out with a good reference. (Or at least as good as you can get.) It's easy to feel depressed about leaving a job that you like but try to remember: Having a good job means that you like the people you work FOR as much as you like the work you DO.
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Thomas Procyk
Phenomenal Film Handler
Posts: 1842
From: Royal Palm Beach, FL, USA
Registered: Feb 2002
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posted 06-12-2004 12:10 PM
Whoa! I hope they didn't take MY advice from some previous thread I won't mention! But if that's the case, then you KNOW they're reading the posts here at least...
That said, let me repeat what everyone else said. I didn't get to read your post before you deleted it, but judging from everyone's reaction, GTFO NOW!!! If not, they will pull you down with them. It sounds like it's already gotten to the point where you're being dragged into stuff you had no direct part in. And in your other posts, you explained situations where you honesty tried to bring the problems to management, who later then took it out on you.
Everyone at that location should be executed and the theater burned down. Now if someone takes THAT advice, I'll truly feel a sense of "Reaction Formation"
=TMP=
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