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Randy Stankey
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Posts: 6539
From: Erie, Pennsylvania
Registered: Jun 99
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posted 09-16-2013 12:19 PM
The thing is that Mom is acting like a doormat. She's just minimizing the situation. I'm pissed off because of the people at the salon but also because Mom is making excuses.
Yes, she did go back into the room after getting sick but that's the way she often acts. On top of that she was probably also high on fumes and not able to think straight. The beautician might also have been guilty of manipulating her back into the room to just "finish up."
I am mostly concerned because she ended up getting so sick that she had to stop the car and throw up. If a person is so sick that they throw up, they are on the verge of poisoning. (If not already poisoned.) She was driving a car in a poisoned, virtually drunken state. She could have easisly been in a car accident.
If that's not bad enough, Mom says that the beautician told her that this has happened before, at least twice. Essentially, they know there is a problem but they are doing little to solve it. Mom said that the woman brought in a fan after she got sick the first time. They KNOW!
You guys are right. If a customer who only stays in the room for fifteen minutes at a time gets sick from the fumes, what are those fumes doing to people who people who spend six to eight hours a day, five days a week in that atmosphere?
I appreciate the chance to rant a little bit. I am not really going to run in their with guns ablazimg. I might feel like it but I know it's not the smart thing to do. If I can get my mom to give me names I think I'm going to pay them a polite visit. She knows I'm pissed off so she'll be hesitant to tell. (Good ol' codependent Mom! )
The overriding concern is that if this happened to my mother and the woman at the salon said it has happened before, how many other women have been sickened by this place? How long will it be before some old lady gets poisoned and ends up in the hospital or gets hurt in a car accident?
I think I am going to go to that place and have a nice talk with them if I can weasel the information out of my mom. Maybe I can ask my stepdad what he knows.
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Leo Enticknap
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Posts: 7474
From: Loma Linda, CA
Registered: Jul 2000
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posted 09-16-2013 06:19 PM
quote: Randy Stankey The thing is that Mom is acting like a doormat. She's just minimizing the situation. I'm pissed off because of the people at the salon but also because Mom is making excuses.
There are some people who have a real, deep-seated fear of confrontation, and will go to almost any extreme to avoid getting into a confrontational situation, even to the extent of putting up with being on the receiving end of outrageous behaviour. I once had to help a close friend through a crisis who is precisely that sort of person, and I can't begin to explain how frustrating it is, especially if it's blindingly obvious to you that just drawing a line in the sand will make the crappy behaviour stop. And of course, the kind of person who is inclined to behave crappily to people will seek out and identify the kind of person who is likely to put up with it, thereby creating a negative feedback loop.
However much it goes against the grain to do so, in the end it's usually easier and less stressful for both parties if you can find a workaround for a situation like that, rather than having to hit it head on. In this case, reporting this place to whatever regulatory authority/ies it comes under would seem to me to be the way to go.
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